Birth Family Search

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How Many Adoptees Search?

  • Between two and four percent of all adoptees searched in the year 1990. (American Adoption Congress, 1996)
  • A survey conducted in the late 1980's estimated that 500,000 adult adoptees were seeking or have found their birth families. (Groza and Rosenberg, 1998)

Why Do Adoptees Search?

  • In a study of American adolescents, the Search Institute found that 72 percent of adopted adolescents wanted to know why they were adopted, 65 percent wanted to meet their birth parents, and 94 percent wanted to know which birth parent they looked like. (American Adoption Congress, 1996)
  • The psychological literature has established that the desire of 60 to 90 percent of adoptees wanting to obtain identifying information regarding their biological parents is a normative aspect of being adopted. (American Adoption Congress, 1996)

What are the Attitudes of Triad Members Towards Searching?

  • In a comprehensive study of the issues involved in adoption, the Maine Department of Human Resources Task Force on Adoption found in 1989 that every birth parent who was surveyed wanted to be found by the child/adult they had placed for adoption and 95% of the adoptees who were surveyed expressed a desire to be found by their birth parents. 98% of the adoptive parents supported reunions between their adopted child and members of the adoptee's birth family. (CWLA, 1998)
  • Sachdev's 1991 study found that a substantial majority of birth mothers (85.5%) and adoptees (81.1%) supported access by adult adoptees to identifying information about their birth parents. (CWLA, 1998)
  • Avery's 1996 research on the attitudes of adoptive parents in New York regarding access to identifying information found that 84% of the adoptive mothers and 73% of the adoptive fathers agreed or strongly agreed that an adult adoptee should be able to obtain identifying information on his or her birth parents. (CWLA, 1998)


Babb, L.A. (1996). Statistics on U.S. Adoption. The Decree, American Adoption Congress.

Freundlich, M. (1998). Access to identifying information: what the research tells us. CWLAdoption News, 2(4).

Groza, V. and Rosenberg, K. (1998). Clinical and practice issues in adoption: bridging the gap between adoptees placed as infants and as older children. Westport, Connecticut: Praeger.

Credits: Child Welfare Information Gateway (

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Kiera - 3 years ago
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I am adopted and this makes me feel like a lot of people that want to know, like me, are hopeful #1
Guest - 3 years ago
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I'm both a birth mom and an adoptive mom, so understand the emotions on both sides of the fence. Adoptive parents who are "hurt" by their adoptive children 's search need to get a grip on reality, and that reality is that you are raising someone else's kids. You became a parent only through another's sacrifice. Those kids will always feel interest and connection to their bio parents, even if they choose not to have a relationship with them for whatever reason. That does not mean that your adoptive child does not uniquely love you as the parent that raised them. The birth parent can never get those years or that relationship back. If the birth parent is a good influence on that child, you ought to be happy that they have found another to love them. The more a person is loved the better. #2
Guest - 3 years ago
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I want to know what percent of adoptees still have a relationship with their birth parents after they have found them. #3
Sabrina - 5 months ago
My whole 18 years of living was a mystery, then one random day I reached out to someone by my real last name hoping that they would know something about my birth parents and sure enough that guy I reached out to turned out to be my dad. God works in mysterious ways and now I know most of my real family and boy do I have a lot! I am in touch with most of them, and it was the best feeling in the world to have that viod in my life filled. I am so blessed and just a tip for those still looking, never give up hope and you will find them I promise. #4
Josephine - 1 month ago
I was adopted when I was only 10 months old. I am most grateful to my adoptive parents (who were two of the best people in the world). But I am still curious to find out exactly where I originated from. My adoptive mother wanted my to find my birth mother, but I was unsuccessful in that quest. Now, I am looking for my birth father #5
Joseph - 2 years ago
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At age 61 MA finally opened up the adoption records in 2010-11, I requested my Birth Certificate and then partitioned Catholic Charities Boston and got my records. I have 3 half sisters and brother, he died in 1982 at 42 but I have been in contact with two sisters one still at large. I went to Boston from CA to Thanksgiving in 2011 and then to the Carrabean for 11 days in 2012 with one sister and met the other. We have a good long distance relationship and I am so glad I found them, and they me. Hardest part is living on opposite coasts. #6
Kevin - 2 months ago
Born S. F. General 12:45 Aug 10 1958,would like to know linage and name plesae #7 - 3 months ago
Interesting piece . Incidentally , if your company needs a NY DOH-4455 , my company filled out a fillable form here #8
Patricia - 2 years ago
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I was adopted by my step father so I guess I was half adopted but I still wanted to know about my birth father from the time I found out which was 12 years old. It seems only natural you would want to know your roots. I never felt like my step fathers family, nice as they were, were my ancestors. I found out about my birth father long after he died and I'm not sorry, just sorry I didn't know him while he was alive. My mother had a terrible time after the divorce and she kept him from me even though he tried to contact me when I was young. I always wondered who I looked like and I found out from pictures I looked just like him. #9
Ruth Salazar - 6 months ago
I am an adopted kid and my older brother is also adopted he was from and orphanage in Guatemala City and I am also from Guatemala City. If you are a birth parent from Guatemala xxxxxx me at xxxx #10
Gabriella - 1 year ago
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I was adopted at age 12 and was in foster care for about 3 years, was almost sent to a group home, now at age 13 i am adopted by my dads uncle and couldn't be happier on how things turned out. (All thanks to jesus my lord and savior) #11
Alexis Bingham - 3 years ago
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I'm adopted. I have absolutely no idea who my birth parents are and I absolutely hate my first adoptive parents. I love the parents I have now but every time I state that I want to find my birth parents they get offended and want to help.. #12

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